Sunday 1 March 2009

my blog is repeating all over again!

okay...let's start of with the repetition...

I would really like to tell everyone to stop jeopardising the meaning of friendships... Why is it when a girl and a guy gone out for lunch, dinner or spend some time together, it will always be assumed as "having something going on"?

Is it impossible for the opposite gender to be just friends? Yeah, i know many people would say it is impossible...but i've got to make it CLEAR to everyone...

A girl and a guy can REMAIN as FRIENDS as long as they find each other repulsive enough to attract each other

So, from the above phrase, i know what you guys have in mind..."if they find each other so repulsive, they wouldn't even be friends, RITE?"

The answer is no...you can still be friends when that someone is repulsive...Scientifically explaining this....okay..a person will only attract to the opposite gender with a particular trait..it can be smell, feelings or physical features...So, this means that you can remain as friends with the opposite gender and STILL NOT attracted to them...OKAY?

And if those SHALLOW-MINDED person still think that opposite gender CANT remain friends forever, i have a question for you guys..Aren't you be-friending your mates' partners/ex? or even your siblings' partners? SO, ARE YOU ATTRACTED TO THEM AS WELL? ...(Well, you can just shrugged it off by saying human has conscience, so they won't get attracted to a person with such status)...it's your call...i don't give it a D*mn.. so, don't EVER judge my friendships...

Anyway, after rambling about this issue, i am really tired and i am NOT going to mention about it anymore..just hope that you (shallow-minded being), can actually WAKE up and realise the TRUE meaning of friendships...

Friendships doesn't take into account of differences in gender, age, race, physical appearance, colour of the skin etc...

whatever...really pissed me off...i don't understand what these people are thinking anyway... different point of view, i guess...

ps: i have a few really close friends and they are of opposite gender...and sorry to say, WE ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER AT ALL...REASON?

"YOU ARE NOT MY CUP OF TEA" ~ of course, i prefer hot/cold/ice-blended CHOCOLATE

8 comments:

FM Luder said...

i guess it's not common to have more friends of the opposite sex but i'd have to say that most ppl i know DO have several friends of the opposite sex. it's possible provided the guy (usually, anyway) isn't using his erm todger as his brain!

connie said...

hahahha! yea, my fren used to say men dont use their brain to think, they follow their 'ahem'...wherever it points! hahaha! no offence..

Hey, isn't that fox the pal of sonic?

Anonymous said...

U prefer Chocolate, I prefer Coffee... that why we are not attract each other... haha! Still remember the "couple seat"?? haha!

FM Luder said...

no offence taken! i hope i don't think with my dong, though =]

the fox is just a blue-eyed fox, not sonic's friend or anythin.

connie said...

Yhann:

Sure i remember lor~ if possible, i wana state u as an example in my blog lor~ see? nothing happen btwn us ma~ can go for couple seat (coz spacious, cheaper), lover's combo(coz cheaper)...hahhahaha! and we r still repelling..hahhaha!

FM:

hehe! at least u admit it though...hahhahaha! which is a good thing~

FM Luder said...

erm... i didn't admit anything =/

connie said...

muahhaha! i mean u admit some guys r like that, not urself, okay?

dun get me wrong~ hahhahahahha!*slap on shoulder*

FM Luder said...

HAHAHA! okaydoke, i thought u misunderstood me lol. *retreats to corner*